As they say marriages are made in heaven, then why has this age conflict always played a wide game in rising those brows? Falling in love is one thing and sticking with the same partner is another. It’s a personal manifestation when his mind meekly glides on the roads of knotting with someone or for that matter without that someone. Then from where does this question of AGE ignites?
Some say—he’s younger, she’s older how can this marriage lasts? Others, oh, he is too old for the girl, she looks like his child? Not only this, there are many who in spite of donning the hat of modernity go laid back and assess the reasons for their falling for each other. Research has its own share in proving this quest in its own way. Even a five year age difference makes a couple 18 percent more likely to get divorced, while people of same age share do amazingly well in the course of their wedding. Really?
As we know there are many predictors who are always peeping in then and there and at times from every nook and corner to find the productivity and oh yes, how the couple looks together? What the crowd out there have to do with the marriage, they do not have to deal with? Here age is the biggest predictor.
I all these years was thinking that age is just a number and that’s how I landed up marrying my partner and we share a generation gap of exactly 5 years. Where you shower love and get that back immensely is what define love. Two people no matter what sort of age gap they share, if living like a king and queen of their life are undoubtedly best for each others. If age is an element to be irksome about, boy oh boy, Mr George Clooney and wife, Amal Clooney may soon get their bad tastes of separation, though god forbid that should never happen.
Age disparity is not that relevant when two people share gallops of love for each other. Talking about, God has sent us with the motive to marry that guy may hold hypocrisy when we talk about age differences. It is either right or wrong, perfect or faulty, acceptable or ignorable, no other cult to escape. Yes, this show marriages are wherein you need to find the intensity of your love and the compatibility to take it forward. There is no one else who can make you disciplined about your decision than yourself. The world, the society will not come to stay with you.
However, the age gaps in celebs marriages also evoked the eyes over this issue. The severe cases of divorce among celeb’s life directs attention to the age disparity and their incompatibility and mindset that made them move. As far as we, who are just normal people must envisage to live with our partner who has been chosen with all conscious and heart. Doesn’t matter, it’s a year or 15 years, as far as you are happy and your relation is voluminous, you are on the plight of love and immense bliss.